Anybody who believes that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach flunked geography. ~Robert Byrne, quoted in 1,911 Best Things Anybody Ever Said, 1988
I have sex in my life. Clearly this is not a shocker to anyone.
I have made love, had sex, fucked, screwed, you name it. I have had loving sex, kinky sex, crazy sex, sustaining sex, mediocre, drunk, bad, “size does matter”, brilliant, smart, love sex, make-up, homecoming, good-bye, I love you – all kinds of sex.
But I have come to the conclusion that tantric is the way to go. Now, tantric can’t be done every day, but damn, after having my first tantric experience, I realized how royally fucked, literally and figuratively, this realization is.
Trust me on this one. I have definitely had some amazing love-making/sex what not in my life, but add to that this level of depth and spiritual connection and things happen to your mind, body, soul and spirit you cannot describe.
Wasn’t it enough that I need a guy who is up for all kinds of freaky mischief? No. That wasn’t enough. Now I decided that I want a spiritual connection to top of it, that when you call it “sex” or “love making” it still cheapens what you experienced together.
Because it’s been SO EASY already to find an interesting, intelligent, witty, well-traveled, “weltoffen” European or American or non-American. Been a blast. ;) I mean, seriously. Now I decided I also want to need someone who is spiritually capable of connection a few layers deeper than what’s normal.
Love it. ;)
But hey, no one has ever gotten anywhere from not trying. ;) Could be fun. Anyone know any candidates, send them my way. ;)
So possums, what do you think? Probably that I should start dating someone long enough to HAVE sex and go from there, no? hehe.