Just cause you change your blog and are fairly cognizant of not using photos or name on your new one, doesn’t mean that it can’t be found.
There you have it. My little rant yesterday might have possibly been read by the person who prompted it.
Loved all of your guys Facebook comments. You ROCK. Hilarity! Hey, leave a message if we aren’t FB friends yet.
Oops. Now, clearly this rant wasn’t all about one person, I mean, one person not calling me is not going to get me all up into a hissy fit, but more of a “built up over months and months of dating” rant. It is funny, because a few other bloggers have written similar ones in the past weeks. Call it inspiration to me.
It’s all good though. I did my own googling and found more questions there as well. The power of google.
Call my rant also a very OBVIOUS and CLEAR sign that my decision to just take my profile off the dating site is a fabulous decision. Clearly I need to, uhm, take a break. I said that a few times this year and I would take a few months with not dating and then I would go out again, cause hell, it can be fun meeting new people, and so on and so forth, but I think I was fooled at least 3x this year, to the point where I got all excited and mushy and cute and swooned just to realize “holy shit, I can’t tell anymore if a guy is genuine or just a total asshole”.
And I can’t. I can’t tell. My favorite was probably the guy who kept insisting he’s a nice guy and I was left with “uhm, I got news for you, you are actually NOT a nice guy, not that you care to hear that from me, because you just like to listen to yourself insist that you are.”
So….I did something on this blog I haven’t done in a long time:
A: I blogged about someone after just a date. I never usually do that. FAIL.
B: I didn’t password protect my rant.
What do we learn from that?
A: Keep to old blogging rules about not blogging about people you are actively going out with OR password protect those rants.
Now I take my 5 minutes to meditate.
Thought of the day:
People often say that this or that person has not yet found himself. But the self is not something one finds, it is something one creates. ~Thomas Szasz